Hey all, 33M Here. Been struggling pretty bad the last few months, January 22nd I found out my GF had feeling for another guy, and that had been going on since October. She blames me for her needs not being met emotionally, however, I work a high stress high hour job and covered ALL the bills. Long story short, I tried to make it work the last 4 weeks, but I’m not the same person I was. Broken, crushed, paranoid, clingy, all those negative emotions. We have been going back and forth on what to do on our lease situation since we are both on it. I think the best decision is for me to leave, I sold everything to move in with her. If she leaves, the apartment would literally be empty. When whomever leaves, i definitely want to go NC, can’t miss what isn’t gone