People who are able to work through stuff and be together simply don’t break up. When the need arises to break up, it is a clear sign that the relationship is not meant to be no contact is simply a way to allow the healing process to occur as quickly as possible to reduce, the pain and delay in healing that comes from constantly reopening the wound of the failed relationship / bad judgements/ shortcomings on your end and their end.

Take advantage NC to meditate on what you’ve learned.. and what you do want in your next love that will be built durably from the beginning… or will be terminated QUICKLY! Hire slow, fire fast.. folks.

Are employers, keeping in touch with their employees that they have fired? No.