Im 26 M, We were together a long time, half a decade, it did not end well. I know she won't be getting many happy birthdays today, 29F, I want to wish her a happy birthday and ask about how her cat is doing, just before we broke up he (the cat, 11 M) started getting eye problems. I'll be honest the message is typed up I just need advice. But I do not want to rekindle anything, I don't want to get back together, I just want to hear that things are okay.

Edit: I done it, now I'm worried about the reply, maybe not getting one would be the best result. I hope I've not hurt her healing process either.

Edit2: she didn't reply, well that's that, never messaging her again. To be honest I really wanted to hear about the cat, but I'll just hope for the best, hope he is alive and healthy.