To be clear… this isn’t a case of loneliness during the holidays…

My ex and I split up after being together for a few years over relationship structure type stuff. Regardless, me and her had our issues and we had to iron them out and work on ourselves

We were broken up for about a year and some change, and we both got to figure out what we wanted. She had a girlfriend for the time being which didn’t bother me, she just wasn’t happy

After a bit, we reconnected and hung out as “friends”… at least that’s what the vibe was supposed to be.. we still had tons of love if not more then when we left off and it was very clear that things were going to pick up again.

I can’t stress how important no contact is if you’re even thinking of getting back with your ex partner… I never believed it until I did NC with her and it worked wonders…. Not a peep to her for 5ish months and she messaged me trying to catch up, and one thing led to another.

Hope you guys are doing alright over the holidays