Ok story time... We were together for 7 years. We met in college, moved in together after 8mos. Then she broke up with me in July 2021. She moved out at the beginning of May this year and we were talking here and there then all of a sudden she blows up at me saying she doesn't want to hear from me.

We both recognized shit wasn't working, but I never lost the desire to get her back. She had a few hate fucks right after the breakup and one regular fwb, I took the time to figure out my sexuality (I'm bisexual heteromantic, as I found out).

But now after she moved out.... She's very vitriolic towards me, only wanting to talk about important stuff like the lease, bank accts, debt, etc... Even when I try to make small talk and allow her interests to be favored in the conversation, she blocks me out.

I talked to her last week about important stuff, and me starting therapy. (she wasn't interested in talking, but she was at least the least pissed she's been in a while). I hadn't talked to her in a week before that and haven't talked to her since. She seemed mildly relieved that I'm figuring my shit out and am able to take responsibility for my actions, but I did feel some anger from her wishing it happened sooner.

Shes apparently seeing this new guy and posted a pic of her and him on FB (publicly, not friends only) thanking him for a great night and that she had fun. Not necessarily leading on that it's a date, but she did blurt out his name to me in anger during our last big fight, so I know. And she knows I know. How should I read into it?

Posting it publicly seems deliberate. Is she trying to make me jealous? Is she trying to show me what she wants to see from me in order for her to feel comfortable taking me back? Is she maybe testing me to see my reaction? One of the things she griped about me is the fact that I'm emotionally clingy. So maybe she's trying to see if she can trust me? Is she looking for my approval? Idk... I haven't reacted or commented on the post

Something she's always done since the break up is say one thing and expect another. I'm trying not to make the same mistake again of only listening to what she says, but I worry I'm reading too far into her actions.

PS- she hasn't unfriended me on fb, or snap, or insta, or blocked my number, etc... No clean online break from her.

Any advice?