My(f21) ex(m22) broke up with me the summer of 2021 after we dated for four years. Although absolutely heartbroken at the time, looking back I’m so grateful we broke up when we did. Anyways fast forward to NYE he was at the same party I was at. My friends told me they saw him and I knew I’d eventually bump into him at some point and I did. He was walking up right to me and said hey how r u and gave me a hug. I was pretty cold with him said “what” at first and then he repeated himself and I said “oh I’m good I guess” I don’t know why I was so sassy.

I feel so stupid about how that interaction when down. Oh also not to mention his new gf was there with him. It just killed my entire vibe and I don’t know why I can’t stop thinking about it. Here I am over a year since we broke up and still thinking about him. I so desperately would like to move on with my life.