After so much consideration and advice from a former professor of mine who is poly, I realized I actually am comfortable with the idea of transitioning our relationship from monogamy to ENM. I brought it up last night and she was shocked. She said that all of the times she brought it up she was half joking and half being passive aggressive and never once thought I’d actually be okay with it. We talked about how we feel about each other and decided before moving forward we would see a sex positive therapist to help us figure out exactly how we want to do this to make sure we are stronger than ever. We ended the evening cuddling and having a great time. I haven’t felt this close emotionally to her in probably a year. So I’m excited for where this will go.

Edit - autocorrected monogamy into monotony whoops