Hey everyone. Happily married but considering ENM in the future. Are there typically places or events to go to where there’s generally a higher number of other folks into ENM?

I’d like to discuss people experiences with them and get a sense for the feel of the scene/community in my city, Given the stigma some people still have about some relationship dynamics, it’s a tough to thing to bring up or ask people about in a direct way without making them uncomfortable or offended.

The partner and I have briefly mentioned it being a possibility at some point but no in depth conversations. As someone who is only beginning to explore whether this is right for us or not, I’m looking to first learn more (this sub has helped a lot) and just want to know where to start beyond online. Thanks in advance!