Little bit of background. Been with my wife for a decade and married 3 of those years. About 6 months back I opened up about her being with another man and she warmed up to it. Several weeks back she met with a guy she met off Tindr and went down on him. Most recent meetup they did have sex while I watched. She's currently talking to him in addition to 2 other local guys she's really finding interest in. She's planning on meeting with one of the new guys this Saturday and the first guy Sunday afternoon. I'm loving this fantasy becoming reality but are we moving way too fast? Part of me wants to pump the breaks and let her fool around with this first guy for a bit, but watching my wife slowly become more sexually confident is the ultimate dream of mine so l'm not sure I want to stop this or intervene. We have discussed this and if she thinks we are moving too fast - she does not think we are. would leave it there but would like some outside perspective. Bonus points if you're in the lifestyle. Is there typically a pace that is appropriate for beginners?