So for the successful swingers who are going strong. We know you have the tea! Give your keys to a successful adventure (beyond communication. We already know that)! Tips, tricks, insights, or general advice!

Here are some of ours:

● on our way to an event we ask, if there is anything you want or don't want to do?

● ask if there anyone you are hoping to spend more time with (This one might surprise you!)

● We have an abort signal!

● If one wants to leave, we both leave. I can't have a good time if I know he isn't.

● Give some lee and grace to your psrtner. We are all going to mess up.

●A public fight or tiff is like a big red flag the size of an entire house. We are absolutely not interested in listening to you hash out marital problems.

●Ease up on the booze. I've lost count of how many times we disengaged with a couple because they were drunk.

●personality is greater than looks.

●pompoir is a skill set you'll never regret!

● Touching, cuddling and general affection are way underrated, but consentpartner.

● Dry spells happen. So does ED, be graceful and understanding about it.