Since discussing the possibility of starting ENM, my partner has said she’s seen a general glow around me. I’ve apparently never looked more confident nor has she seen so many women looking at me before. Not sure if this is the new car effect where she’s just more aware of these things, but I can definitely say that I’ve also had quite a few women that I haven’t talked to in ages commenting on my pictures, one of which couldn’t help but to mention how she could see the outline of my cock in my sweatpants. After being in such a long term monogamous relationship, this newfound attention has been odd? In my teenage years and early 20s I didn’t have a problem getting laid or anything, but now that I’m nearing 30, I’ve noticed just how many women and men have been trying to flirt with me. Far more than what I’ve ever been used to. Has this happened to any of you all when it comes to starting this journey?