My partner and I have been in an ENM relationship for just over 6 months, and in this time, she has been on a few “dates” with other guys for sexual purposes

(Note: I don’t like to use the word “date” as to us that suggests a romantic connotation which is not what we agreed on in our relationship but you get the jist)

Before we were together, I was never able to meet someone and go on a date with them, my partner and I met through a mutual hobby and were seeing each other casually before becoming official.

She is able to meet guys online and organise dates with them, fulfilling what she wants from ENM yet I struggle bad. I haven’t been able to get anything going with any other women, since most seem scared by ENM, and the only guys I’ve slept with have been on a strictly NSA hookup thing.

I wanna meet up with people, have a good time and also have those sexual relations with women but as a man in an ENM relationship, it seems so hard to do so!

Any tips or advice for getting through this?