So my girl (F29) and I (M29) are both very comfortable and open about what we like sexually. We both agree on what we are Ok with and all the ground rules. She’s into women and gets turned on by thinking of her and I fucking a girl together and seeing me inside her and I get very turned on by thinking of her getting another dick preferably a bigger dick then mine. And I’ve had this dynamic in previous relationships and really narrowed down exactly what is the best way to go about it. So basically we both agree we have to trust the guy or girl we do it with, so the only people we trust are our friends, certain ones, and unfortunately none of them are really open to it, which is the first time I’ve ever had an issues getting a guy specifically to do it. So now we are stuck because when we fuck we always role play either me inside a girl she gets Turned on by or me as a guy that preferably has a bigger dick, but we are stuck because we can’t actually do it, because we don’t wanna do it just to do it we want to stick to our rules, and the people that turn us on the most aren’t realistic for various reasons, so any suggestions?