So, asking the question that probably gets asked daily/weekly: Any apps, forums, threads, events that you'd recommend for finding a ENM partner? Personal experience with modern dating apps and poly? We don't want to financially invest in multiple dating apps (1-2 would probably be fine if lower cost).

My spouse and I (34M / 37F) decided to step into ENM about 2 months ago. We are not wanting a unicorn; we want individual partner(s) aiming for garden/kitchen table in the long run. I already have a partner (36M) that I'm starting this journey on with (originally a friend who was/is highly attracted to me but respected that I was mono married until opening to poly.). My husband is still looking, but I also knowledge that I may seek another/different partner in the future too. We live in a Midwest metro (USA) so I'm sure there are plenty of poly, but no idea where to start. Google hasn't really been to helpful. He is also a quiet and introverted man, so social events can be stressful (at first) for him... We did meet 8 years via dating app, but there are so many more apps now.