So, earlier this week, my (35F) and my husband’s (38M) boyfriend (25M) broke up with us after only about 2 weeks of dating because he said he wasn’t comfortable with polyamory (Note: My husband had been talking to him for several months before dating and I would join in occasionally). Wrote about it in the polyamory sub because I was sad and wanted support and got roasted for supposedly being unicorn hunters even though we were trying to form an ethical triad.

Flash forward a few days and our boyfriend wanted to get back together. He said he felt a lot of regret after breaking things off with us and wanted to work through his feelings about polyamory. He also said he loved both of us.

My husband and I are over the moon to have our boyfriend back. When we tell him we love him too, he lets out a little giggle and it’s so cute. He texts me good morning most mornings and it makes me feel so good. I know we’re in the NRE stage, but I am enjoying it.

There was also a little bit of talk about our future and him saying he wanted to potentially move in with us (not right away) and that made us both so happy as well that he is thinking about being part of our lives like that.

I feel so lucky that we found our boyfriend. We weren’t searching for someone to add to our relationship, it just kinda happened, but it feels so amazing.