Hi, this may not be the best sub to post this, but I figured yall would give way better advice than like r/relationships haha.
I (24f) recently hooked up with a friend. We have been flirting for quite a while, and the timing was finally right. We both really enjoyed the hookup and agreed we don't want to date, but now I feel bad. I think it's because of two reasons:
I'm mourning the spark. The will-they-won't-they excitement. I just don't feel the attraction anymore.
Because of 1, I had to reject him for future hookups. He took it well thankfully bc he's a good guy.
I know I didn't do anything wrong, but I still feel both sad and guilty for losing interest and rejecting him. I'm worried we won't be able to be as good friends now. I don't think I could ever act normal again if the roles were reversed.
I would really like to hear some kind words from those far wiser than I. Thanks :)
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