Hello! My husband [M28] and I [F28] have been ENM for a while, probably around 10 years. I have been looking for a more consistent fwb recently, and he has a fwb as well that he sees usually once a week but lately not as much. He recently expressed that he did not want me to do a specific kink that I have with anyone that I meet up with, or by myself because he thinks it is gross. (I have a piss kink. The main thing he has an issue with is me drinking pee, or getting it in my mouth. I understand this is kind of an out-there kink but I am into degrading and bdsm.) I told him that that was a ridiculous request in my opinion, and I could not promise that I would never do it in my life. He says if I did it he would not want to kiss me ever again and would look at me differently. AITA?? I told him it shouldn’t matter what I do sexually with my fwbs, unless it was something illegal or harmful or non-consensual. Has anyone else had something like this come up in their relationship? What would you do?
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