Hey there!! So as the title says in new to the group and to reddit. I'm trying a new avenue because I think I worn out Facebook it's the only place with community pages that I know of. But at least here I know I won't oh ya know run into my MOTHER! That's a story for a different time. I feel myself I fall into a lot of different categories.... Well firstly my husband and I are in an open relationship. Lots of reasons how we got here. We discovered traditional societal norms for marriage are not for us. We tried! We stuffed the feelings and attractions with people down because it "wasn't right" we ended up having an interesting conversation about a friend of ours and their relationship and were both like whoa....wait we would handle this way different.... Maybe we can do this way different and we would be happier! This sent us on a rollercoaster of discovery, with my I discovered really what my sexuality is, and with him he just felt the comfort of knowing I know if he's attracted to someone it's not something I'm lacking. We don't date together, if dates were ever to happen. We just live share laugh and just live a happier existence. Are their issues oh hell yes! But in a crazy way I wouldn't have it any other way .... Also with me being gay and him as my exception it's been awesome discovering myself..... I'm glad I found a group I hope I find awesome connections and kindness!