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After 7 years of poly, the most important lesson I learned : I don't like dating other people, and that's okay.
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I just don't have the energy for it. I'm a solo poly.
At first, I tried dating, creating multiple relations, etc. But the honest truth is... I wasn't really present for these people. And if I can't show up for these people in the amount that matters, and make them feel loved, that's just insulting to them.
It's okay to not have to same dating energy as your partner. It's okay to not be dating anyone when your partner is dating 5 people at the same time.
You have your own boundaries. That doesn't make you a lesser person.
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