Husband has first solo experience scheduled for tomorrow and I’m a mess

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My (45M) husband (I’m 38F) has his first solo experience scheduled for tomorrow and I’m a mess.

We have been talked about this for a while and we have both been talking to other people, but I haven’t met anyone in the real world yet. He’s meeting a woman tomorrow night for drinks and potentially more depending on how it goes.

We have discussed this ad nauseam. We have an agreement with rules in place. We are both really excited about these new experiences. So why do I feel so bad? I feel so jealous. What if she’s prettier than me? What if he likes her more than me?

I don’t want to tell him how I’m feeling because I know he will cancel his time and I don’t want him to.

How do you get over this?

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BluNkitty

I struggle with this as well. Lots of good advice here.

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