Has anyone tried this before? We are hanging out with the coolest sexiest unicorn, but it seems like everyone in the lifestlye treats her like shit. And she's the most authentic person I've met in forever.

I have a previous workmate who is a really handsome sweet single dad, and i don't think he ever did poly dating, but I know he was at least lightly in the BDSM world. I think he's into the dom/sub stuff and some other kinks i don't know about, cause we never dated.

Have you ever tried hooking up people in the LS with people outside of it? I am going to be upfront that she is into ENM relationships, do you think thats normally a turnoff for men who haven't tried this before?