So it’s going to happen! My wife and her “side-piece” have set a date. It’s crazy that it took us over a decade to get here. But that’s the thing about manifesting the reality you want, you HAVE to be intentional, and most importantly, patient.

The discussions have progressed to a point where my wife is even considering OF and I couldn’t be more pleased. Her growth and investment in her owning her sexuality, her increased self-image and her overall change in how she process difficult are incredibly better and the change is beautiful to witness.

Their first time will be at our home and that makes it even more spectacular. It’ll be in the guest room but her being comfortable and in a safe head space will help her enjoy the experience and the video will definitely be a memorial to our journey together.

After their first time she’s already planning an MFM threesome and I’m leaking with excitement. It’s going to be an awesome path forward and I’m reading two great books on ENM and Hotwifing to help me manage any negative feelings. I’ve included them below for the benefit of all who are considering ENM.

1. Polysecure Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy.
2. Insatiable wives : women who stray and the men who love them.

Be well, be safe, and be patient with yourself as you progress toward your better self/selves.