Hey y'all,

Coming here for advice from people in the community. I(30M) and my wife(30F) have discussed opening our relationship to meet my higher sex drive for years now, we finally decided to take the plunge and I've been giving Tinder an honest shot.

What I've encountered has me perplexed though... So I match with a lot of women, and we'll be chatting either right up until they actually read my bio where I set the clear boundary of my marriage and situation, then they'll either unmatch, or be into it if I weren't already partnered.

Like what I've gathered so far from people who tag themselves for that type of relationship is they want the benefits but without sharing the freedom with their partner if that makes sense... And I recognize I have a limited pool to choose from, just has left me more than a little befuddled.

Would love some advice and am more than happy to share more about my situation as well. I'm located in Chandler Arizona and am open to meeting new people, currently in my swan song with corporate America due to the warped reality it perpetuates so I appreciate any and all advice and feedback.

Thank you for reading this far, and I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.