I really want to address my issues with jealousy. I'm still really new to this but these tend to be my lines. These are in regard to my main nesting partner, but rules for them would also follow suit for me. I am definitely down for advice in how to improve certain areas.

1. Sex Toys. I have no clue if this is strange or not, but if there are toys that were bought with the intent of using them between to me and my main then I think they should stay that way. Some sex toys become almost like talismans. There was a pair of handcuffs that we used that got used for something with another person and it feels tainted? I feel like these toys should stay with whichever partner you use them with.

2. Details. I don't wanna know names. I don't wanna know what you did. I just need to know if you are involved and being safe.

3. Discretion. Since we are nesting partners I don't really like seeing the house fill up with things that are clearly from the other person. I do not want that other person in our home either. So private areas are important. Clothes are kinda weird. Like, babe, I know you don't care about vince staples and Brian eno. That black dress? Yeah that is just fine. But other things?ugh.

4. I guess this one is super specific to me. Like I don't care if you have the most rough and violent sex with this person at all. I just do not want a master slave type relationship going on when that person isn't a nesting or primary partner.

Idk. I feels like most of these are reasonable.