So the wife has progressed into more salacious and explicit communication with a guy she’s known platonically for a while. He’s agreed to our rule for STD testing and we’ve fucked like rabbits since things heated up. I’m literally out of come and need to replenish. I listened to a podcast and celery is supposed to help with semen replenishment.

She and I both have exhibitionist fetishes and the next hurdle for her is to broach that with him. No OF, for now as the legal work to have rights is unsexy. Just for the private spank banks for all involved. I’ll edit it and blur faces.

We’re moving and I know there will be feelings. That’s honestly one of the points. But how to help her process and how to help me process?

Right now we’re going with stag vixen, but it seems to be more FLR/Poly. These damn terms overlap so much that it’s almost like a pic your flavor scenario. It could change by the second. I’m totally ok with that too.

Does anyone recommend a book similar to “The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory” but for men?