Hey I just wanted to ask you all something, to be precise i'll give you some information about me and my female partner and our relationship, I just wanna know If you think we're on a healthy way!

So Iam 25, she's 20, weve been dating for about 5 months now and decided WE want a commited relationship. I Had many Partners before (only 1 Ltr the rest was hookups and fun at Sexpositive Partys and two good girlfriends i sleept with sometimes If we we're in the mood for it). So at the beginning before we said we want to commit to eachother we had a very natural and nice FFM with one my longterm FWB, my girl liked/loved it and even begged for IT to see me going down and later on fuck the other girl, she really was into it. As well I also enjoyed just to take a break and watch the go at IT:3. Also she lost her virginity to me, I let her have the time and let her come when she feels ready for it! And she did greatly but also was extremely tight (she's doing ballet since 16 years we both are very sporty so sehr hast those kegels build properly)

So time went by, we both said we wanna commit and so on. After that threesome happened nothing changed except for our sexlife, IT went even up more and got better. She isnt that experienced and Had to learn how to please me as well as I took my time to learn how to please her (she never had a orgasm from me till now, she said its strange because she still cant fully let go of her mind die to her inexperience).

She only had 2 encounters with men but both just wanted the suck and fuck ( she liked it because she likes to get sexually used and IS very submissive with a little bratty side) but she didnt Like the fact that she had no one to Talk about what happened. Now Iam there and she's soo sweet, leaves me little letters sometimes where she reflects and often thanks me, makes lunch and places it at my bag If have a long day at work etc, same the other way around, we both have the language of love in emotional/physical touch and little presents. She really appreciates me and we both try our best to be a Team with that Teamenergy!

So far we discussed that I could still go to Sexpositive raves ( I already did 2 Times now, next time she comes with me) and was allowed to cuddle, make out or receive/give head, no Sex was the boundary. And it was so beautiful to have someone I can open up as a man with all my needs, I could Just cry because I always wanted that and thought I would never find it.

So now I had 3 sexual encounters which we communicated very clearly and she really showed that she trusts me and is Happy if Iam. Now the topic came up that I got invited to a threesome for my birthday from my 2 favourite prays I know over 1 1/2 years from events and we hunt us almost every time we See eachother but also hang out to smoke or take a drink. She's fine with it and is also in a holiday with her mother over my birthday. By the way Iam a very chilled dominant guy who is also Bisexual and really enjoys being a switch with other men, I also think I am a Stag because I like the fact to see her with someone she's having fun with but I would never bow down to him/her (I could think about being more submissive to Woman), my Primal would just go wild If someone would mess with me in sexual context around my girl and i just dont like beeing humiliated!

Now she came up If she can try another men, she doesnt want to have Sex ( I also dont want to cross this border without her!) she just wants to suck a nice dick and see how well she improved in sucking while practicing with mine :3. I got to say, IT really turns me the fuck on, thinking about it, but most importantly I want her to be safe and comfortable!! I couldnt look myself in the eyes If something bad happened to her because I was to careless!

She knows the Guy already (one of her 2 encounters before) and is so excited for the thrill of IT! And Iam also we're so up for a good fucking after she sucked him off :)!

So our Boundaries are Set with: hookups with Oral and maybe fingering If she wants too or receive head herself. The Same way for me except its okay for her If I sleep with Men, we're also very focused on Birthcontroll, she's on the pill and only would have sex then with condoms! She doesnt want that barrier broken that only we have sex without.

So my question is: does this all sound healthy in the first place? Does it sound possible for you more experienced people that we can build a good and healthy, trusted and loved relationship around our model?

How do I secure her safety in her First adventure without beeing to concerned about Bad things to Happen to her? And If so how do I Manage that?

An other thing is we are very traditional with both of us wanting kids and even marry one day (we dont pressure but we discussed it to be clear), so we both dont want other partners Just hookups and friends with benefits like my two good Girlfriends with benefits.

I thank you all in advance and sorry for the wall of text, I really appreciates your comments and reading this! Hope my english isnt too bad.