My partner and I (28F and 32M) have been ENM for a year and a half. Recently, an acquaintance approached me regarding being interested in being with me sexually and essentially having an affair with him (45M). So, for him it would be cheating. Have any of you had this situation come up, and have you got involved with them?

I feel conflicted. If I participate, I think I would feel some guilt. I already talked to my partner about it. He is totally fine with me engaging sexually with this person, and doesn’t see it as a reason I should feel any guilt because I am not responsible for another persons choices. While I agree, I still feel some ick and guilt over it. Has this come up, and have you engaged with cheaters?