(this is all in the context of a long distance relationship from across the continent)

my (21f) partner (22m) and i have been together for a year now, we’re relatively young and im unable to move to him before completing my studies (a year and a half)

he’s the first partner i’ve ever had sex with and it was really great. he on the other hand has had numerous sex partners, i was the first time he had sex with someone he cared about

he always says its so much better to have sex with someone you connect to like this and i believe him… but i also want to have the experience myself.

it could also be that as a young adult i really enjoy being flirted with, and people still catch my eye. i never see myself in a relationship with these people but i feel like i missed out on various fwb situations.

we’re very young and in the one year we’ve been together no real issues have surfaced, which leads me to think our relationship could go on for very long, which is a little bit crazy the more i think about it

idk how i could even bring it up to him because i don’t want this to strain our relationship and i don’t want him to not trust me anymore