my spouse and I are going through a divorce for the last year. we have been dating each other and sleeping together for the whole year, and no longer live together. we have not been dating other people.
two weeks ago, he slept with a woman, and started chatting with four people. (did not tell me)
we slept together a few days ago, yesterday he tells me he’s poly, and that he’s seeing other people.
he said they know he’s seeing other people and they don’t want details.
what is happening here?
It sounds like the divorce and separate living situation meant different things to each of you.
To him, it meant the end of all your previous agreements like marriage, cohabitation and monogamy. He feels only obligated to inform and not get permission.
You you, it meant you would continue being monogamous and behaving the way you did when married and living together.
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