So therapy is what started this all for us really. My husband came out as Bisexual after our second Marriage counseling appointment. So we didn't look for a specialized therapist obviously, because at the time I didn't know what we needed. He was really angry before we started therapy and that's really why we were going. I didn't know it was because he was suppressing a big chunk of himself.

This poor older lady keeps getting blindsided by what we bring up. Because first it was that he came out. Now it's that we want to open our relationship up. So anyways, I just wanted to say it was really scary and hard to bring that up today, but she rallied and was able to be helpful and supportive even though it's obvious she is not prepared.

I thought it was really important to talk about it because it is what I'm feeling emotional about lately. Anyways, do you have any experiences as far as therapy and ENM?