My partner & I recently decided to try out ENM. We have brought other people in before in a strictly sexual context, and it's always a lot of fun. He mentioned the idea of me also seeing other people outside of our relationship, and I told him that if I was going to be doing that it's only fair that I give him the same opportunity. But the issue is that now we have each gotten on a couple apps, and while things are going pretty easily for me (F) but he is having a really hard time finding anyone and it seems like it's hitting his self esteem pretty hard. I mentioned that maybe we should just go back to the way things were if he was becoming uncomfortable or upset in anyway & he insisted it was fine. So at this point I'm just wondering what I may be able to do to help him, not necessarily find anyone obviously there's not much I can do there, but maybe just to be reassuring towards him? I'm not sure this is new territory so any advice is appreciated thank you