Basically the question. I am curious about ENM. I am in a partnered relationship. We’ve talked about how we’re open to each other “doing what we want with our bodies” with other people. Haven’t explored anything in practice yet though.

I was wondering how you tell people that you are open, particularly if they know you’re in a relationship and might otherwise assume you’re not available ? I would want the person to make an informed decision if they want to get with someone with a partner. I also wouldn’t want them to think I was doing anything unethical. Any subtle and/or not-so-subtle ways to disclose this and see if someone would still be down?