Anyone out there a mom of babies/toddler and/or pregnant? Do you have any trusted resources for how to navigate this? My partner and I have been open for the entire 6 years we have been together. Lately, pregnant and with a 2 year old, I find the conversations about ENM leave me feeling so tired and overwhelmed. I find myself wanting the ease and peace of our family unit (I know that’s unrealistic though as my husband feels sexually repressed when he isn’t regularly seeing and sleeping with other people).

We don’t have money for childcare right now so I’m trying to figure out also how to care for myself while I’m home with the baby and he is out.

I’m just wondering if ENM mothers have any books, podcasts or video channels they find helpful. Or even better, advice from personal experience.