Hello!

Quick updates:

1) We Need YOUR HELP. Reddit's new business model has left us mods feeling a bit frustrated and we could use your help. The short is that they cut out a LOT of tools that we use to fight spam and keep things on-track. To counter this, we are going to loosen some auto bots that help us to fight spam, trolls, bots, and similar ilk in an attempt to lessen our work (and frustrations). We hope that you will not see any spam, trolls, etc., but if you do, please REPORT IT.

1a) On that, someone or someones are reporting comments that basically just go against their opinion - if you are doing this, please stop. Whatever your goal is, it's not helping you or your cause here.

2) Gentle reminder that Ethical Non-Monogamy includes many different flavors that can often times be almost entirely opposite of each other; please keep this in mind when replying to others (and when reporting comments to us). Ex. Open relationships do not automatically mean polyamory; swinging does not automatically mean open relationship; relationship anarchy/hierarchy does not apply to all of ENM and so many others. ENM is a BIG umbrella for a lot of things. We like this because we know that we don't all fit into tightly defined and limiting labels.

Hope this helps.

Thanks everyone!