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Someone to talk to about reasserting NC after parents repeatedly violate it?
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Proptor__Hoc is in North Carolina
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Can I just ask if there's anyone here who prefers direct messaging over group conversations? Comment or DM is fine.

I've been NC with my immediate family for two and a half years. I mean, as far as my personal agency goes. They've been leaving voice-mails, sending texts, and having people reach out for them ever since. A couple days ago I finally told them off in a way that I hope will put an end to that.

I feel numb. Guilty. Internalized senses of my personal inadequacy are back with a vengeance. I'm depressed and hurting. How could I hurt them? Also how could I feel so good about hurting them with a vengeful feeling? I don't know what to do.

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