So i am really interested in this and I have been doing alot of rearch but I am having a hard time finding information on triggers and sex with triggers look like

1# so how do you suggest a trigger? Do you just tell them this is a trigger when there in trance? What can you do with triggers, like can you install a trigger to cum from giving oral sex or only let's them cum when you give them permission?( only cumming from permission I don't think I would actually do sounds like alot of things could go rong, just curious)

2# when you wanna use the triggers do they need to be in trance first? Like Would you need to hypnotize them then start doing kinky and use the trigger?

Also my my partner struggles with being a dom. They do enjoy it but it's more mentally taxing can you use a trigger to help get the negative emotions out of the way when they dom