Hello friends. My wife (Princess sub) and I (Daddy Dom) are taking our dynamic out of the bedroom. We’re still working out the practical details but in the mean time I thought I’d start on some conditioning for some of things we have decided. My thought is to build a good foundation of general concepts I already know we want to work in the dynamic.

The gist of our discussions are her desire to not have to make any decisions at home anymore. Just surrender it to me. Surrender the chaos to me to give it order. Scheduling, organization, task management type stuff is what she needs the most structure in. And so far the most trouble surrendering.

BUT we still have teenagers at home. How would you structure her surrender in everything but the kids? Do I need to continually make the exception whenever I mention it to her in trance or can it be setup as a blanket understanding that it never applies to parenting? Realistically, she’d defer to me on most any decision anyway, but when it comes to the kids I don’t want there to be any doubt of her agency. Any other potential pitfalls to consider?

Thoughts and or resources appreciated. I’ve just started the brainwashing book by sleepingirl.