For some reason I can’t stay in trance longer than about 30 minutes. In the past, the files that have worked best for me and gotten me to HFO are around that length.

Lately I’ve been listening to Mistress Calia and she’s amazing. She drops me deeper into trance than almost anyone else I’ve listened to and her audio “Break” is so good except that around the 40 minute mark (longer than usual for me!) I struggle. I get too caught up in the build up to the climax and my desire for orgasm so much that if it doesn’t happen, it feels like I can’t turn that mode off and just be present in the moment, regardless of the outcome. I end up coming out of trance quickly and frustrated with myself.

Any advice for this?

I’m sober so I don’t want to use weed like I see a lot of people recommend. I’m also ADHD, which doesn’t help lol.