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Help me find my wing [Type 4]
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Hey everyone!
I am still a bit confused as to which wing is the most dominant in my case. As such, I compiled a short list of traits for each wing. Please help understand what they might mean:
Common to both wings:
- Always feel like something is missing.
- Self-esteem issues Inferiority complex.
- Prone to envy and jealousy.
... You know the drill!
4w3:
- Dual personality: outgoing but introverted; assertive but insecure; ...
- Try on different masks in an attempt to find myself and hopefully fit in.
- Constantly seeking self-improvement and spiritual growth.
- Want to be successful, but also to be perceived as successful.
- Very competitive when in an academic context.
- Good communicator: able to express my emotions openly, no fear of speaking in public.
- Long for a true group of friends: can make a good first impression, and initially connect well with people, but find it very hard to keep friends in the long run.
4w5:
- Need a lot of alone time:
(1) Introvert who feels absolutely drained after spending a lot time with other people;
(2) Need space to pursue my interests and hobbies;
(3) Prefer to be alone with my thoughts, and to deal with grief alone.
- Planner/Researcher by nature: find it hard to put my ideas into practice; and to reach the ambitious goals I set for myself.
- Greatly interested in literature, programming, and many other "brainy" subjects.
- Create for myself, not for others: truly enjoy the process of creativity, exploration and discovery.
- Very unconventional: get called "strange" quite often, but mostly in an endearing way.
- Very few friends.
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