The great thing about elopement is that you can pretty much do whatever you want. However, that opens up so many options. We don't know what we want to do and what we don't want to do for our elopement in October.

So far we know... We rented a vacation rental in the woods for a long weekend and will do a small ceremony there.
We are doing a self unifying marriage (legal in PA) with our best friends (they are married) as witnesses. We are Pagan and will have some tribute to the elements (earth will be a unity ceremony with a tree we will then plant at our home). We are going for a dinner afterwards. I know what I'm wearing. He does not yet.

What is everyone doing? Are you having a small cake? Are you doing something special for a ceremony?

We're just looking for ideas. This is coming up quickly.