I was worried we were being too reckless. We booked our trip to Las Vegas just a week in advance. We still haven't told our families and only a few close friends know we're actually here today. We’ve been together for more than 3 years, but there was still that tiny nagging voice of doubt in the back of my head. I kept asking the universe for a sign, a nudge, anything that could tell me the time was right.

Then, Sunday night happened, the night before we left. My boyfriend and I went out to karaoke to celebrate a friend's birthday at a local gay bar. Our friends went home early but we stayed behind hoping we'd get to sing the duet we signed up for. 20 minutes to closing, they called our names.

With microphones in our hands, lost in each others' gaze, we sang Bette Davis Eyes. This might sound corny, but at that moment, I actually felt like time was standing still. There was no bar, no crowd, nothing but the palpable love that I've always longed for in a relationship. The universe had spoken loud and clear.

This afternoon, we're tying the knot. It will be a quick ceremony — no frills, no lengthy exchange of vows, no rings. We'll say 'I do' sign some paperwork, exchange a kiss, and be on our way (hopefully to a a restaurant with good food and booze 😅).

Thanks to everyone here who has contributed their questions, thoughts, and insight. It's been so helpful over the last week as we navigate taking this next step in our relationship.

And if you've been looking for a sign from the universe like I'd been, maybe this is it 😊

Edit: We did it!