First to all the real couples, or real single women: - I have noticed there are quite a few couples and some single women looking for some fun, whether they are looking for another couple, or a single male/female, to join in the fun. So my question to you is, from all the choices you have, which seems a lot,( I mean a lot, especially males) to choose from, what are the chances a middle age man that isn't in the greatest shape to get picked? ( Yes, I am one of those men) Reason I was asking, how can we compete with someone that is young and fit (which seems like there is a lot of). Do you go for looks or more personality?

Now this crossed my mind because I can only imagine how many old, fat, and possibly gross men are on here thinking they might get laid by a beautiful couple or women.

Me personally, I know my chances are very very low. And I know when to try and not to try. I ain't delusional, and go for the hottest couple looking for a third. So that leads me to my other question ----

---To all the middle age, not so fit, average guys ....how has your experience been trying to find some fun? Do you have much luck? If you have gotten lucky, what was the reason?

Sorry for this long, maybe weird post. Curiosity got the best of me. I hope I make sense. Thanks to all that reply.