Hey everyone, I'm new to the swinging lifestyle and have been lurking on this sub for a while. I'm really curious about a few things: * How common are genuine couples on here? Seems like there's a surplus of guys looking compared to women. * For those in established relationships, how's your experience been finding partners? Are you typically looking for specific physical attributes or is there room for everyone? * For those looking to connect, what's your experience been like? Any success stories or red flags to watch out for? * I've seen a few posts about people charging for companionship. How do you spot the real deals from the fakes? * Any unspoken rules or etiquette tips for newcomers? * I've heard a lot about QE. Is it inclusive to all body types and preferences? Any insights or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!