Hey everyone, I'm hoping to get some help finding two old friends who I lost touch with over the years. The first friend I knew from high school, though we went to different schools. We used to chat a lot and had a great connection. The other friend I met through a cousin. We also got along well and had many interesting conversations. I actually took her to an Incubus concert in Las Cruces once! Unfortunately, life happened, and we eventually lost contact. Recently, I've been thinking about them and wondering how they're doing. Here's my concern: I don't want to reach out in a way that seems creepy or stalkerish. Does anyone have any advice on how to find old friends tactfully? Any tips would be greatly appreciated!

I tried Facebook and Instagram....no luck I also dont remember their last names.

But I can put some details on here in hope they might see it and remember.

First friend: She went to Canutillo high school around 2000 - 2003 (I'm from Austin High). I believe she played softball or some sport. She dated a friend of mine and we double dated to our homecoming one year.

Second friend: She is a cousin of my cousin ( I know, I should ask my cousin but unfortunately I can't).

Incubus had a concert in Las Cruces and I surprised her with taking her. It was a last minute thing. This was between 2002 - 2005ish.

I will not put more details just in case or their names.