I'm an overweight guy (I'd like to think I wear it well), looking for an open minded woman. Not so recently out of an abusive relationship, and I'm looking for some positive sexual experience with another person. This experience is mostly about connecting and engaging in healthier ways. Even if it's just communication and picture sharing and/or masturbation encouragement. Which is why being local isn't a necessity.

I am a very kink positive/friendly person but I lack a lot of practical experience and would really like to change that. Maybe find a friend/regular play partner/or more along the way.

I kink towards the submissive but do identify as a switch. Not really specifically looking for a Domme, but I'm open, I don't want to get too label heavy. But if you like labels I can also be quite the voyeur. and can be a bit of an exhibitionist.

The list of things I'd like to experience is very long. but highlights include a desire to literally lick/suck/kiss a woman from head to toe (with emphasis on armpits, breasts, ass and feet), food play, anal play (giving/receiving, tongue/fingers/toys) mutual masturbation and masturbation encouragement, 69, food play, modeling play, watersports and other sorts of bathroom play. Urethral play, forced/encouraged/coerced bi, foot worship and much more more. Much of this listed is fairly submissive oriented but I do enjoy playing the dominant as well.

Additionally, I would love to be able to try to help some women experience their fantasies too. I don't judge, am completely open minded and attempt to be very flexible. So if you're in roughly the same boat as me, please don't hesitate to message. Even if what you're into isn't something I've listed. Try me. I love women of all shapes, sizes, races, etc. I also have a soft spot for tomboys. So don't let any sort of fear of rejection or previous negative experience stop you from giving me a try.

I am open to talking on any sort of messenger or whatever you're comfortable with. I sometimes take a while to check reddit, so if I don't happen to response quick enough and you decide to delete your account or you also don't often check reddit, you could feel free to send a kik/email address or something so I can get ahold of you if you. Or not, no pressure at all.

I am 6' tall. I can host depending on my parenting week and schedule, and willing to travel but I don't drive.