So, when I first started properly multi-day edging at the beginning a month or two ago, it was insane: I was horny all the time, leaking precum through the day, heavy low balls and a permanently swollen cock (you can see my previous post on here for details). However, since then, I've had what lots of guys on here I know have had - sometimes you're edging for many hours in a day but your penis just kind of gets bored and I spend a lot of time edging it almost soft - wtf is up with that?

So for any of you guys for whom the only effects of edging are aching balls, I encourage you to DENY yourself more. Some people might say avoiding PONR while edging is the hardest part, but with correct kegel training and learning your body, I'm much more controlled with that now. The hardest part now is stopping when it gets amazing and when my cock is pulsing and begging me to touch it. Put your pants back on and continue with your day (if multi-day edging is your goal). Your cock will punish you by leaking uncontrollably and getting uncomfortably hard while you're doing mundane tasks.

I think this is key to getting in the gooner mindset. More edge does not equal more horniness, etc. It can go the other way and instead make your cock bored and soft. Edge it to the point where you have to physically grab your hand away from your cock to stop the temptation, and that feeling will not die away.