So for context I'm pretty heavily a switch, but I only ever show my dominant side on reddit. There are two main reasons for this. The first is rather simple, there is alot more trust involved in being someone else's sub. Because of some experiences I'd rather not talk about I have a fair bit of difficulty trusting which makes it difficult for me to be cool with getting dommed. The second reason it's just how much easier it is to find chats with girls who want to be dommed. I've had many girls message me before asking me to help them cum or to take control of them before, but never had a girl message me wanting to control me (even though I have definitely posted some rather subby stuff before on older accounts). And not to even mention how many girls I've talked to here who have no idea they suck at messaging because they're so used to talking to guys who are completely desperate. All in all, it just becomes easier to take control and do most of the work myself. Not that I dislike domming by any means.