I feel like this sub could benefit from a reality check, every once and a while. Here I am again, with a serious post!

Just wanted to address the constant trend of boundary pushing, that seems to pop up in these spaces, sometimes for the worse.

I know we all like to push our own limits and test our boundaries…but let’s keep that to edging, and edging only!

Speaking on a personal level, I get a lot of messages from people, private of course🙄, that approach me as if i’m some type of automated sex service robot.

What I mean by that, is it seems that many scouring this subreddit feel as if a hyper-sexual post, is an invitation to cast their sexual desires/experiences onto the OP. And they think the OP, will be the one to fulfill their fantasies… simply because their post was sexually charged.

I feel many may not even realize how out-of-place and inappropriate their behavior is, simply because this subreddit is so hypersexual. The wrong people, really do take posts as an invitation to be 100% open with a stranger, unprovoked. If you have self-respect and boundaries, yes even online, it is uncomfortable to be on the receiving end of.

We all know unsolicited photos are wrong. Outside of that extreme, I feel many lose sight of the point behind why something is wrong. Other than unsolicited pictures… it is creepy to send unsolicited stories about sex escapades, or unsolicited descriptions of how you’re actively jerking off….

This is a place to describe all of those things… someone’s private chats are not the place to initiate that.

Although, outside of private discussions, in the public comments, I still see this boundary pushing. Most of the time, I see it in the comments section of other goonettes lesbian-centered posts. Men will comment something like “let me put my penis between the two of you” lolll. Usually they get downvoted, but still.. that is what i’m talking about! Most of the time, those commenters take that energy to the PM’s. It’s so weird!!! I think they may not even realize it.

As for the people that start private discussions in a more compelling way, then decide to push the boundaries… whether they ask permission to chat, or start a chat with a question you’ll clearly be willing to answer like “how long have you been edging”, ugh… they might be the worst.

^These people will ask you questions, wait for your response, then start to answer their own questions😂😂. Then they’ll start to go on and on about their sexual escapades while you don’t even respond.

Why do I think that’s weird? Because at the end of the day, they don’t care about your response, despite starting a chat with you…they just want to get away with being hypersexual towards you… they aren’t really interested in edging.. they’re interested in your private automated sex robot services.

They figure you won’t message them first, so they hit you up first and get your attention by appealing to something you already posted about. Then, because they only want to express hypersexuality (they don’t care about edging), they quickly shift the topic from whatever it was that started the conversation, to their own expression of hypersexuality. They will unprovoked, tell me about fucking their ex-girlfriends, or will tell me about their own edging habits… I don’t ask about any of these things.

Plus, half of those messages, full of people simply telling me they are edging or telling me to keep going…. i’ll think “why didn’t you post that or comment on r/EdgingTalk ?”. It just feels so creepy and it feels like they want to put a foot in the door, so they can talk about whatever it is that’s actually on their mind.

I appreciate all of the people who comment and don’t fly to the messages 🤧! As well as the people who spend an equal amount of time in the comments and chats💗

If you’re here just to chat, you should probably find other blank profiles to talk to. If you’re here to chat about whatever you want, initiating that in private is not the way to do that; find communities that talk about what you’re wanting.

r/SluttyConfessions would be a great place for a lot of y’all who can’t seem to stop yourselves from sharing all of this personal information, with people who never asked. That subreddit is for that exact purpose, except the people scouring it are choosing to be subject to your sexual expression.

Hope that helps. Cuz I’m sure there’s someone reading this, that would’ve scrolled to the next post about lesbianism, ready to private message another goonette about fucking them with their penis 😂😂😂😂!!! It’s ridiculous.

edit: wow i guess this post provoked the weirdos to come out. getting rape threats!