So, I had been chatting with an extremely attractive woman on a dating app. We chatted about kinks, swapped nudes and talked about our of love of edging.

I headed out tonight, very excited to meet her, and you can maybe guess what happens next... She didn't turn up and has gone deathly quiet. So I'm pretty sure this is my first catfish!

But it's ok because I followed all my rules and was safe the whole time. We were going to meet in public so I didn't end up anywhere weird on my own, I never shared a nude that showed my face, never shared any personal details or socials.

And I feel like they've wasted more of their time than they have mine. They put a lot of work into being convincing and I waited outside the bar for 15mins or so in the bay area where I live. There was a firework show popping off across the bay to entertain me the whole the time and the atmosphere was good with people milling around. It was alright to be out I figured.

I guess the moral of the story is, yes you can get super horny over someone who may not be who they say they are, but just keep to your own rules and stay safe and you might not even get hurt.