I used to post on this sub a lot on an old account that i had to stop using because of the reasons I'm making this post. Some people on here can be extremely obsessive and it can get too much. I get that we're all brain melted messes but please remember that it is an actual person making these posts. On my old account I posted a lot about my denial journey, and what i was wearing to college and stuff like that and for the most part the interactions I had with people on here were amazing, but there were a few people who would relentlessly message me non stop, asking me to show them pictures of what i was wearing that day, how much i was leaking, or what toys i was using. Personally i dont like sharing pictures that much because of personal issues. I shared one photo on that account and i was happy to share it, but then i just got more and more messages asking me to share more. Even after telling people that i dont like to share they still kept messaging me non stop, like literally if i did not reply within 5 minutes they would be spam messaging me asking why im not replying. it was just a lot to handle at times.

so all in all, i fucking love this place. it is the most welcoming subreddit i have ever been on and 99% of the people here are amazing and i love chatting with you guys so much. But please remember it is normal people that are making these posts, people that have lives outside of this and if someone says they arent comfortable with something, please dont keep asking them to do what they arent comfortable with doing.

love you guys and i cant wait to get back to edging with all of you